
Originally Posted by
Zuranthium
Don't read my post if you haven't seen the film.
This was just okay for me. It was an honest depiction of slow, sad descent into veggie-land and the "climax" of the film is certainly very affecting, but I found it hallow on the whole. If the premise of the film was to show love, then I think it was not entirely successful. Obviously the husband killing his wife can be seen as an enormous act of love, but I found his motivations to be very muddled. Clearly he does care about her but I think he might have been feeling more selfishness than love, with the way it is presented. Suddenly suffocating her with a pillow is shocking to the audience, but in terms of this story it can make you think he is frustrated and at the breaking point. I firmly believe that people should be allowed to die if their mind has decayed and/or they are in an immobile state of physical agony, but if I was going to kill my lover, to release them from the pain, then I certainly would not suffocate them when they are awake. If you truly love someone, then surely you should be able to think of a way for their passing to happen much more peacefully. Creating extreme horror for a person in their final seconds of life does not show love.
It's not just this plot point that bothers me about the whole thing, though; it's the actual presentation/execution that is lacking. The actor didn't provide enough emotional and mental struggle to me, both before and after the event takes place. There should be enormous internal conflict and remorse and guilt (to varying degrees, depending on how they want to paint this character), but I didn't get enough of that. Aside from just the acting there are several ways Haneke could have subtly put these concepts into play, but his approach here was not just "austere", it was approaching barren. So too was the script filled with rather meaningless passages that added little/nothing to expanding the emotional and intellectual terrain of these characters and their situation. The problem wasn't just with the husband character, either, there was also not enough of a concrete feeling about whether or not the wife truly wanted to die. She spits some water out and it's claimed by the husband that she doesn't want her daughter to see her like this, but perhaps the former is just because it's sometimes too painful for her to swallow or because it makes her stomach hurt. It's also clearly stated that she hates hospitals, so perhaps what's really happening is not an entire desire to die, but rather a desire to die rather than having to live in a hospital.
Her feelings correspond to how we can feel about the husband's feelings and how we can view his actions. Since she is somewhat muddled that just makes him even more muddled. There was a lot of space in the film where we could have been drawn into these characters and seen/felt their complexities, but it doesn't happen. The whole thing is both undercooked and underseasoned.